When spring rolls around, students and teachers alike inevitably begin thinking about end-of-year testing. We all try to be positive and look at the tests as an opportunity to show off all that we have learned (or taught) over the course of the school year. Unfortunately teachers and students can’t help but feel the pressure put on us to perform well, and that can make testing time quite stressful for all.
As a teacher and I parent, I experience this from both sides, so I am closely familiar with what this feels like. Like all of you, I want to do everything in my power to help ensure that our students are successful on the testing, but also feel relaxed and confident about it as well.
So what can a parent do? I think the best approach for a parent (or teacher) is that of an excellent coach. I believe the 3 actions below are the key.
1– Make sure they know the skill or content they need to.
To do well and be confident that you can, you have to “know your stuff.” Review tools are plentiful online, and classroom notes would be a great resource. Many schools offer subscriptions to online learning services that can be valuable tools for students, and there are some great FREE resources out there as well. One of my favorites is www.learnzillion.com where students, teachers, and parents can access video lessons and practice activities on Common Core Standards in Language Arts and math for grades K through 8.
2– Set reasonably high expectations.
To achieve great things, our students have to reach high. Make sure you talk to your child and let them know that you do have high expectations for them. Be careful that your expectations are something that your child can reasonably reach with some effort. You don’t want to set them up to fail.
3– Let them know you believe in them and are there to support them.
One of the most valuable things we can do for our students is to prove to them that we BELIEVE they can do it, and that you will be there to support them all the way. Great coaches know that is you believe in yourself you can accomplish just about anything you set yourself out to do.
If your child is having particular anxiety about the big test, this video is a great way to begin a conversation to build his or her confidence. Yes. of course we want them to do their very best, but the test does not define them! “This Test Does Not Define You”- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oFMjbs3hoiU